Gloomynya hari ni..

is it true that when a person is important to you..you'll take each and every word that person said seriously? I need serious advice...sometimes I just felt like walkin away for the sake of not lettin myself go thru all these shits..


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Fat post

Fat. I felt so super fat of myself =(





For the past five years I've grown fat. On going in fact. The nevertheless increase of fats in my body just doesn't stop. Look at my face it's getting more and more rounded. *boohooooo* fml

You may notice that most of my pics where my head will usually be in a tilted angle (so that my face'd look thinner wtf) Crystal once ask why is my head senget in most of my pictures in FB lol.





See that? Sorry for the pink tint. Guess it was the reflection of iphone4 flash via the speck's pink phone cover.

I've been telling myself to go on a diet for years now - diet before Chinese new year. Same old story every year which, bull's eye, failed. Again and again I'd lie to myself. CNY is like when? One months' time wtf. Even my waist line have grown, I'd (and am still doing it) buy the same size five years back. Shame on me. So much so for the self deceive method. For the past five years I've grown from 45kg to 50kg now. Holy mofo. Pif.

Someone better not get slimmer or else you'd get it. Forget bout the four or six packs. You know who you are and you know what the consequences will be. *evil laugh*



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Moving on...

Ever wondered if you've really moved on after a break up?

We've all had lovers and ex-lovers. Some are easier to move on from while others will agonize you for years to come. If you have never had a hard time moving on from a lover, then no, your two-week relationship was not oh my god love. Sorry. 

To me, it depends on how the relationship was ended. Example, due to unforseen circumstances which caused the relationship to end reluctantly, for some reason there's regret whereby even when you've moved on, your heart still misses 'the ex', or comes next the forbidden love, whereby you tried moving on by seeing someone else, but when your ex comes back looking for you, there goes the beginning of an affair. Does time frame really matters? I totally do not believe in that. Unless I think that by just sitting around and wait, a magical wake up will come to you and *poof* all of a sudden you have no feelings for your ex. Why the cling? Prolly, you can't find what you wanted or somehow similar traits which your ex had, and your current partner doesn't compliment your wish list. 

There are times when you're dying to know what's on your partner's mind. Does her ex randomly weasel into her mind throughout the day and you wanted to ask her so much. Of course, you could've predicted her answer. So what's wrong with having your ex coming into your thoughts? A song, a tulip, a color or a dog can simply work. Thinking bout your ex doesn't mean that you haven't moved on either. Hope I'm right to say that.

To some, it might be hard for them to move on. Questions after questions - could have, would have, should have. *kicks* An ex-girlfriend was probably an important part of your life. Did you get the keywords there? It's okay if you didn't; I was trying to be subtle. You can't win everyone over, but she can still be an important part of your life. Instead of pondering about the could/would/should have happenings, think instead of what you want and what you can give, and think of what will happen when you find your next significant other. 

Ask youself. Are you okay with your ex dating other guys? Or girls if you were so charming that you turned her into a lesbo. There is a difference, however, between claiming you're okay while clenchin your first and grindin your teeth, and having a small smirk while you continue talking to that long legged hot chick at the bar.

Bare in mind, if you two made such a great team, then she wouldn't be an ex and you wouldn't have to be moving on.

Jealousy Kills...

Not only relationships..friendships too. Why said so? I'd experienced it myself. Someone closer than a friend. Closer than you can imagine.

Imagine someone having everything that you could ever want. A pretty face, in perfect health. Loadsa cash and friends. Drives a luxurious vehicle. Dines in the finest restaurants. Travels frequently to some of the most breath-taking exotic locations.  Nothing is out of their price range. Seemingly happy. Would you be jealous of this person? Most of you guys would say YES without hesitatin'.

Define jealousy.

IMHO, it's much more than just wantin what someone else has. It includes anger, hate and a lil passion of negativity in there. You long to have that they own and tend to feel angry when you do not have the same. They have something else instead of you. A lil too intense on this you'll be led to being called an attention whore. Isn't it? Ask yourself.Being jealous affirms that you are without and that there is no room for you to have. Don’t believe me? Then why do you think it is so difficult for people to admit to being jealous? Can you? It is because of the fact that being jealous shows that they do not believe that they could ever have the same. Worse, admitting being jealous is admitting they could never have the same. Jealousy is a double-edged blade. It is so toxic that it not only kills the object of its hate but also the heart of the person who is doing the hating. When you are jealous of someone else, your heart is damaged as much as the person of whom you are jealous.The worst thing which jealousy may lead you to be in a state of ungratefulness. Devaluing the things you own, and the people who loves you. Open your eyes wide and look around. Observe those who are true to you and those who aren't. Once you start to devalue things you run the risk of them slipping away.

Why do you have to be jealous? 

On relationship wise, hoomans tend to be dramatic with their own life at times. They search high and low for that special person that they want to spend their lifes with, then once found, that's when the drama begins. Doing silly things to push them away. (Whoa, this sound seriously familiar.) Any great relationship is built on trust, and not giving your significant other the trust will eventually turn it into a burden. Agree? If you don’t trust the person that you’re with, then hopefully you have a good reason for it. But if that’s the case, then why are you still with them?  

Or maybe the issue is that while you trust your partner, but you don’t trust the people he’s around with. Wild drinking buddies for example? Or his friends may put him in situations where he’s more likely to do somethin? Even worse, he’s still close friends with one of his exes and you know she still has feelings for him. These are common fears, and the best way to get passed them is to talk (not debate) about them. Let them know your concerns and how it makes you feel, and hopefully they will be understanding and ensure you that it’s not a big deal. The next time they get in that situation, they’ll know how you feel about it and be less likely to let anything happen. Easier said than done.

Personally, I think that when someone has cheated (or being cheated) in a relationship there’s really no way to totally get over it. Be it in the current or past relationships. If a person has the damn guts to cheat, the history might repeat itself again. It’s really one of the hardest things. Can you ever go back to completely trusting someone when you’ve already been there and had it happen again? If you’re in a relationship where there has been a history of cheating, I would suggest that you think REAL hard about what you expect to gain out of the relationship. If you decide to stay, you need to understand that you’re going to have to let go of a lot of angry feelings and try to be trusting again. Controlling their actions won’t work in the long-run, so you’d have to be able to let go of the past in order to make it work. For some people (like me) that’s not possible. Proceed with caution? How long can you bare with this? It's so stressful that you've to be worry at all times, fearing that your partner will cheat on you.

Think, think and think again. Having a jealous significant other completely destroys relationships. After a while it just becomes a big point of contention, and a lot of times it can actually cause promiscuous behavior where none existed before. This is the whole “if she keeps thinking I’m cheating then I might as well cheat anyway” routine. Believe it or not, it does happen. The more you worry, the most likely that it's going to happen. Bottomline is, doesn't matter if this happens within a friendship or a relationship, make sure you are solid in your feelings for each other and can have open communication about how things make you feel. Being open and honest with each other is another pillar of a strong friend/relationship, and can help both of you overcome your issues by working on them together.

Cheers! 

Nippy Noodle Restaurant @ Kuchai Lama (Non-Halal)

Venue : Kuchai Entrepreneur's Park. (Opposite k3k)

Wanton noodle lover should give this a try..in this case it's called "Dan Dan meen"

Since young I don't fancy wanton noodles that much. But this is good.












The menu.











Fugly chicken feet but nice wtf












My fav Siew yuk Dan Dan noodles :P


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Handsome coffee xD lookin like a skunk? Where's Pepe? Lol























Guess how many have I collected? XD


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Coincidence or what?

I was on What's App with Henry aka. Thomas telling him bout what I dreamt of last night.

So here's the story,

He owns a BB and I, an iPhone4. I was telling him that I got myself a new BB in my dreams and I wanted to show him.

His response was ".............. Creepy"

I was like, "wtf? You had the same dream too?"

Henry : I had an iPhone 4.

And he too had this dream last night. Wtf omg.

Is this creepy or what? Hahaha!! And he asked me not to blog bout this. But unintentionally...I did :P

Assam Fish House @ Sri Petaling's Carefour

Venue : 1st Floor, Opposite a dentist and surrounded by few foot reflexology centers. The signage is green in color.





Famous for the Assam fish. The meat is very fresh (at times the quality may downgrade :P) and it'll definitely increase your appetite for second helping of rice. lol.




This is what they called "fu yu yau mak". Though there's menu but some servings isn't available on it. A bit salty but you guys should try their stir fried choi sum with wine. Crazily fresh choi sum ever!!




This is my favorite. Used to be "chicken and lala soup in claypot". Now, they no longer have lala. This is not available on the menu itself. You gotta ask the boss (as the staff there are Indonesians and they aren't sure) or the chef there.


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